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I am a single, poly, submissive, masochist.
I'm old, and have been in this lifestyle since puberty. It's not really a choice for me, and if I could be happy in a vanilla relationship, I sure as fuck wouldn't be here right now. Oh well. It is what it is.
I have my filter set to "nice" because I am long, long, long past the thrill of having random dick pictures of strangers shoved in my face. Hopefully I can now tolerate being on this site again. We shall see.
I do try my best to be nice and reply to all sincere messages. However, I am just not a fan of randomly chatting with people long-distance. I am here to meet real live people for real live dating interactions in person only. So if you can't come to where I live to take me out for coffee to talk and get to know me in person, or you can't afford to pay for me to travel to wherever you live for us to meet for coffee and talk and get to know each other in person (with no sex expectations whatsoever for at least the first 2-3 dates) then please don't bother barking up my tree. You can save the "It's all about the mental connection" bullshit for some bored housewife out there looking for some tingly fantasy twaddle in the wee hours of the morning. That would not be me. I don't have fantasies, I have action plans.
I don't know what else to say. I am a bit of a SAM (Smart-Ass Masochist) and I WILL call you on your shit if warranted. So please just be a nice, normal, functional, kinky guy who knows how to treat a woman with appreciation and respect until she gives you permission to do otherwise, and we will get along just fine.
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Mijn Ideale Persoon:
First and foremost, I am only interested in meeting in real time for face to face S/M interactions. I have zero interest in anything long distance unless you have the resources to fly me out to wherever you live on a regular basis. I am not interested in relocation if you live anywhere with snow in the winter. I love living in the tropics, and MIGHT consider relocation to another warm climate. But I ain't never ever ever going back to snow again for anyone. Ever.
My ideal partner would never have a dick picture as a profile pic, and he would never send me some rude, crude, and socially unacceptable first message. He would know that if it is inappropriate to walk up to a pretty vanilla girl in a bar and say it to her face, then it is inappropriate to write it to a girl in an opening message here on ALT also.
Ultimately, I am seeking my lover and protector. My ideal partner understands that both the Dom and the sub are service oriented roles, and that we both need to be caring and giving people in life. So if you are incapable of loving and caring for others, then I am definitely not the girl for you.
I won't make the first move, probably ever. And I'm not fond of the chatting system here, so usually only reply to actual messages. If you are sincerely interested in connecting with me, you will probably have to try and track me down on one of those less horrible dating or fetish sites also.
Every onward, pervs, and best of luck to everyone in their search!
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