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I am a dominant man. I’ve been into this since 1980. I know what I like and I know what I want. I am intelligent, creative, passionate, sexual, and intense. I’ve been accused more than once of being a Renaissance Man. I’ve been professionally involved in arts and science. I’m exploring a new business. Aspiration and ambition have never faded. Regardless of my age, I do not have a foot in the grave, but nevertheless, you can’t hit 70 without pondering mortality. I’m kinky, but that isn’t my central focus and identity. I’m an artist.
I’m not a switch; if you’re a domme, looking to secretly explore your sub side with a discreet partner, write to me, and we’ll see. Otherwise, don’t bother to check me out.
I am not seeking a potential spouse, girlfriend, or kinky vanilla companion; I am not offering exclusivity, any possibility of marriage, being your boyfriend, or a vanilla FWB who spanks.
I’m looking for a submissive woman for sensual and sexual partnership. If she and I connect and have a good time, we’ll undoubtedly want to do so again; eventually we’ll have created a long-term relationship, then we can discuss a collar. There are bdsm neophyte women who totally get all this from day one; I will certainly consider beginners. Experienced submissives are highly desired.
I am not gay and have no interest in cross dressers; I’m open to transsexuals with at least a year of hormone therapy. T-girls are women; those who don’t think so don’t know any. If you’re male and live 24/7 as a woman without having started hormone therapy, I’m not interested, no matter how “passable” you consider yourself to be, so don’t contact me.
There are really only two erotic crimes: malicious disobedience and emotional betrayal. Some subs approach those crimes with a view to provoking their dominants into genuine punishment. The only reason for real punishment is to change the sub’s behavior. In my experience, that rarely (if ever) works. If you disobey me maliciously, or betray me, you won’t be punished. You’ll be immediately on your way to fuck over some other dom.
My unicorn has at least the following qualities:
She is widely perceived to be a powerful woman. If you don’t have power, how can you exchange it? Everyone has baggage; she keeps hers checked. She has her shit together, including her finances, transportation, health care, and so on. Like me, she is passionate and intense.
We each find the other sexually attractive.
She’s lovely to look at. I’m H&W proportionate; so is she, svelte or curvy. She is healthy, but doesn’t need to be a workout monster. Tats are fine, but no permanent jewelry anywhere other than earlobes.
I’ve enjoyed BBWs in the past; not seeking that now, but you never know, since chemistry trumps everything else.
She is sexually uninhibited, bisexual, and “try-sexual,” obsessed with oral sex (giving and receiving), an art whose craft she continually strives to master. She has sufficient exhibitionism to enjoy being used at public dungeons.
Her primary pleasures are being obedient and being pleasing.
In kink, her wide limits correspond to my limits. Those are:
1.No criminal activity. (e.g. You’ll never be pimped out.)
2.Nothing that risks serious damage. (e.g. I avoid implements I’m not skilled with.)
3.Nothing that risks her health. (e.g. No “breath play”.)
4.The choice of whether or not to have a safeword is 100% hers.
She fears and craves erotic pain, which she is certain to receive. She’ll be thrilled to occasionally be given a black and blue ass. “Tears are not a safeword.”
There is currently a lot of conversation about consent. It’s simple, really. Everyone involved has to want to participate in whatever is going down, even if he or she doesn’t know exactly what’s happening next. Negotiation specifies the boundaries of all activities, and renegotiation in a scene will not happen. Consent is given every second; it can be withdrawn any second. There is no “set it and forget it”.
An amazing and extreme slave once told me: “It’s easy to submit to what you like; it’s much more challenging to submit to what you don’t like – and that gives a much deeper experience of submission.” Any prospective sub will strongly resonate with that observation.
She is highly emotional and expressive, intelligent, and capable of interesting conversation. The more education the better.
I don’t expect her to fall in love me, or me with her; nevertheless, that might happen. One can never tell.
I am polyamorous, she may be also. If we create a d/s relationship, she will choose to sub to me only, but may choose to have other sexual partners. I have zero interest in limiting the rest of her life.
I don’t care where her ancestors came from or what languages she speaks, as long as she speaks English.
If she’s under 30 (but obviously, over 18), she’s mature in her spirit. If over 50, she‘s childlike and open in her approach to sensuality. I’m well aware that there are highly sexual, sexy women over 70 who can fuck with perfection. The proverb “Age is just a number” seems to apply more to women than men.
Age-ists, racists, bigots of any kind, and Trump supporters, need not apply. Those who are “born again” or have “a relationship with Jesus”, please stay away.
She is local to Tucson, Arizona, or has no problem travelling to Tucson to see me. This is a powerful preference, but isn’t absolute.
I’m looking for a human being, not a collection of photos. Nevertheless, as she is uninhibited and exhibitionistic, she will have no problem sending naked photos of herself, and if her face is not revealed in her profile photos, a face pic. I’m not interested in extreme closeups of her anatomy. It is not news that you have a pussy, an anus, and nipples. Those all look better in person, anyway.
She will have no problem meeting me for coffee and conversation, to determine if we have the essential and necessary chemistry, without requiring much of an email dance first. However, if she has any questions for me, she’ll feel no hesitation to ask.
If she asserts “no limits” and is only looking for her one and only for the rest of her life, I’ll reply after she’s returned to Earth with some realistic goals. If she’s looking for a kinky husband, I’m not the one.
Perfection in a partner is a wonderful goal, but since we are all human beings, perfection can only exist in dreams. Suppose she finds a partner who is 85% of what she wants ... perhaps 90%. Would that be enough? If it isn’t, don’t bother to contact me. I’m a human being. I’m not perfect.
I have been hit on by a number of scammers recently. To be completely clear: I don’t want any money from a sub, and she is not getting any money from me. Our connection will be completely non commercial. If she craves to worship my cock if only I give her money to travel to Tucson, I’ve heard that before. Go away and don’t bother me.
Like many people, I’m sick of the bullshit one finds piled all over this site. I realize that this profile may greatly reduce the number of people who want to check me out. So be it.
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