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DsVirgin 67 F
1 question
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Valentine's Day: Is a gift appropriate? - 2/6/2001

I hope this doesn't seem too silly. I am a novice sub who, after some discussion and meetings, has just accepted a Dom for training purposes. We will have our first real session in two days, and Valentine's Day will be within a week of that. In a sense, I will have given him my virginity (in D/s). Assuming we have a good experience together, is it appropriate for me to acknowledge him ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
slutdog7 69 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Love getting it in the butt - 1/24/2001

I love to take it in the butt.does that mean I may be Gay or Bi? My girlfriend love to use her strapon on me, and has just started to let some of her friends do the same.This was kool but now they want to bring in a guy or two to join in the fun.Not really into guys but like to submit to her.what should I do, bendover & take it, or just stop at the strapons.I'm really afraid I may like the ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
ibhorny247 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
butt plugs...... - 1/13/2001

i enjoy wearing a butt plug. but i can't find one that will stay in, and can be worn all day. most just hurt or fall out. i had one with this little strap, but it was useless. i want to stretch so i can be fisted, any advice or objects, techniques, or other ways to stretch will be appreciated

2 response(s), 0 votes
Aredraven 64 F
1 question
Score 0.0
What is OTK? - 12/10/2000

I have heard the term OTK from someone who was into spanking and light bondage. I have no idea what it means. Can someone clue me in?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Lola7 58 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Your Favorite Tricks that Drive Your Dom Crazy - 12/9/2000

I thought it would be fun if subs and even Doms wrote down some of the best/simplest/most creative/ ways a sub has just blown their Dom's mind. I am NOT looking for long involved rituals. I just want quick clever ideas of 5 sentences at the most. Here is one of my favorites as an example. <br> I bought a remote control vibrator at Good Vibrations right before the Dory Ally BDSM ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
2BeInCharge 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why can I find black women who are serious about being submissive? - 12/3/2000

I have been looking for a black sub for quite a while now and have not had much success. I've heard from a few but they are not serious about their submissiness. Are there any other resources I can look into besides this one?

0 response(s), 0 votes
hlm69 55 F
1 question
Score 0.0
New sub wanting to learn - 10/24/2000

I am new to BDSM and want to be a sub any Master would be proud to have. I want to learn all there is to know about being a sub but I am not sure how to go about finding a trainer and Master. I am also concerned about the dangers of finding a trainer and Master. Please help.

1 response(s), 0 votes
dewpoint 72 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Verbal Size Humiliation - Where Do I Find It? - 8/13/2000

I find that having a woman deliver verbal, candid remarks regarding my below average size fits perfectly on that pain/pleasure line. These assessments can run the gamut from genuine disappointment to overtly derisive. I often fantasize about having a woman announce these feelings right in the midst of having sex. Love to locate a woman who's not afraid to be matter-of-fact honest in this ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
cymbidia 67 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Pain without marks? - 7/20/2000

What's the most intense sort of pain that could be administered *without* leaving much in the way of telltale marks? I mark easily, far too easily, and crave intense BDSM pain/pleasure without residual markings. Thank you.

0 response(s), 1 vote
Witness 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Switch, sub, or DOM ??? - 3/10/2000

Personally I consider myself a switch personally. But for the past few weeks, I've been seeing this girl and I don't know where she stands and when. Sometimes she'll start taking control, then just back off. While other times she's submissive then hits a neutral zone. Any suggestions on how to bring out the "real" her?

0 response(s), 0 votes
tarro 67 M
1 question
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there,s a problem with the request of (women loking for men ) in the contry of canada. - 8/15/1999

could you check this section for me and try to organise this section as soon as you could please , because i don't under stand what's happen there or if it's my P.C. is in trouble. Thank for your attention, " tarro".

0 response(s), 0 votes
col007 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
why ??? - 6/2/1999

i get turned on (and have to go off and have a wank if she is not in the mood if she is it only last about 5 mins) when my girlfriend shouts at me dose that mean i am a sub ?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Phallca 70 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How to find the male 'G' spot - 3/17/1999

Ok ladies sit up and take notice. Much to popular belief you are not the only ones with a 'G' spot. Its true that your is easier to reach than ours but once you have found it be ready for some spectacular fireworks from your partner. Ever noticed how when you get anywhere near your partners anus his hips start rising? Well this is because your only a few inch from his 'G' spot. Try oiling ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
Zontitti 45 C
1 question
Score 0.0
What are some ideas that I can have my male slave do? - 3/5/1999

I began a few months ago dominating our relationship. I just started anal play and wearing of womens panties. I need ideas that would apply to him. I am now his mistress 24/7 and i provide him with lists that have to be completed. So please i ask you please give me some new ideas, for i want him to know that women are superior to him and his little package.

0 response(s), 2 votes
mrphoto54 62 M
1 question
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where can i find to sell my erotic photos - 2/15/1999

I have several erotic photos of different women doing different things and would like to find someplace to sell them.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Beastman69 46 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I work on a budget - 1/25/1999

I am a starving college student who couldn't afford the complete gear. Are there any creative people out there who can help me have great sex on a budget?

0 response(s), 0 votes