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JAS1063 60 M
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knots for bondage   3/24/2007

Hi can any one help me, I am familiar with the common knots eg hitch, half-hitch, granny etc. But would like to find book which will give me, a better understanding of more exotic knots eg Asia and the far east.


2 Comments, 125 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rexking 71 M
4 Articles
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i need some help- fake sperm   3/19/2007

Hope someone can help. We would like to make a video with her in a bathtub full of sperm. Without haveing to get the male population of Massachusetts over here, does anyone know how to make a good "fake" sperm? Needs to be gooie, yet slippery and must look real. It also needs to be safe. Hope you can help ASAP. Thanks


1 Comments, 169 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
41 Articles
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electric play info   3/14/2007

anyone know anything about electric shock play?
don't mean with a tens unit.....with anyway for a stronger shock......
have been asked to learn how to do shock therapy like she saw in a movie........I know nothing about it.
any help would be helpful.
thanks


5 Comments, 149 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
41 Articles
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for the women   3/11/2007

why must you leave the bathroom door open when you go ?

I know you've been in your relationship long enough he's seen you nude lot's of times but the one time he does not want to see you is when you are sitting on the stool.

WHY CAN'T YOU CLOSE THE DOOR ?
and while I'm at it, why can't you wait till a man's done shaving before you come in and take a dump????

we ...


8 Comments, 201 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
LearnerJB2 56 M
1 Article
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Need advice   3/1/2007

I'm new to alt.com, and have a very specific goal. I'm looking for a creative man or woman who will take control of my sexuality and introduce me to homosexuality -- using email, chat, even cam to give me specific assignments that will break down my inhibitions over a few months. Is this unusual? What is the best way to find someone?


1 Comments, 135 Views, 1 Votes
tazdawg46 54 M
41 Articles
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gonna piss off all the women   2/28/2007

why is it that when a nice looking female walks by you when you are with a woman she will say something like "bitch.....she thinks she's hot"
I'm thinking that myself.

why is it anytime a woman sees another that she thinks is attractive she has to make a derogatory comment about her.
if she sees a woman wearing a short skirt she will have something to say about that.
...


4 Comments, 138 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
41 Articles
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snapping pussy?   2/27/2007

In my years growing up and in adult life I have heard the term "snapping pussy"
Until recently I thought it was just a joke. I had the good fortune to be with a woman that got on top of me and did not move her body but the muscles inside her pussy worked my dick like a machine!
Is this more common than I have thought? I have had women that could really use their pussy muscles but this ...


6 Comments, 304 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
Raptornx01 43 M
1 Article
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Aggressiveness   2/27/2007

I am a man who has a strong interest in being dominant. I have had contact with true submissive women in the past and found I not only enjoyed it, but longed for it. And I want to explore that lifestyle to the fullest.
But I have a problem. I have a submissive personality. I was with a dominant woman. A woman who sought out submissive men not just for sex but as a partner as well. But, she ...


4 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
41 Articles
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electric shock   2/23/2007

I have never used electric shock...I have heard of using car batteries. I'm told it has an effect of total submission.
My question is first, is it safe and if so how exactly is it done?
I have just learned a friend is planning to have this done to her and they are using multiple batteries.
I am afraid for her safety...any suggestions.


0 Comments, 206 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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The Art of Submission   2/22/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive seeking to fully understand the art of submission. I would like to know what qualities make a good submissive? what is about being submissive that you/we enjoy?
What pleasure does being a submissive give you?
If you could use any words to describe how you feel about submission what would they be?
I'd be really interested to hear what everyone ...


1 Comments, 211 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
M_Julianna 48 F
1 Article
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Lady Julianna's Guide to Sensual BDSM   2/21/2007

Excerpt from Chapter 3: BDSM Play Basics - Do’s, Don’ts & How To’s
Your Domme Demeanor – While playing you must always act as though you know what you are doing and exude strength and confidence. Never, ever, ever ask your sub in the middle of play what he wants to do, what you should do next or if he likes what you’re doing. There are ways of finding these things out without ...


0 Comments, 182 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
cccc04 45 C
3 Articles
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how to make it happen   2/16/2007

we are having trouble on how to tell some of our friends we would like them to join us in the bedroom for some kinky hot sex does anyone know a good way to ask them or bring it up with out sounding like freaks if there not in to it


3 Comments, 144 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
silent_soo 43 F
1 Article
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Gag mad with a latex allergy? Read this!   2/4/2007

I've spent the last few years desperately searching for a ball gag, but my allergy to latex has foiled me at every turn. Living in the back of beyond means no sex shops for me, so all toys are bought online.
However, I've found that even if the manufacturer notes that a product contains latex, there's no guarantee that the supplier will bother to mention it on their website. ...


4 Comments, 183 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
stragglyslave 71 F
12 Articles
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Short but true   2/1/2007

If it goes too fast, it just ain't gonna last
If it goes too slow, the Master He shall go
If it goes just right, hey, good luck to Y/you B/both


0 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
hardfortranny 57 M
25 Articles
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deepthroat everyone?   2/1/2007

i am a straight guy that recently experimented with the other side. both transexual and guys. i have practiced for a while, trying to master the art of cock sucking. i have used several different size dildos to practice. from small to huge. i know that everyone can not deep throat. but i think if you practice, you can overcome the gag reflex and do it. i found with the dildos, that i could ...


2 Comments, 253 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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I don't understand   1/28/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through an extremely ...


7 Comments, 187 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
master_pharoh 50 C
24 Articles
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I Could Beat You For That, But You Would Enjoy It Too Much: Alternative Punishments That Work   1/26/2007

Punishment by nature is something that is to be avoided, something that is negative; it should be unwelcome and act as a negative motivator. It can be used to motivate a submissive/slave to start behaving in a certain manner or it can be used to encourage a behavior to stop.
Some people think that a paddling or spanking is punishment; these actions would normally be what I would ...


2 Comments, 295 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
BREASTMAN83 38 T
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Advice for my first time crossdressing in public   1/22/2007

Hello id like to go out to one of the clubs in London for crossdressers but am quite nervous and shy about going. Id like to know if other people who have been felt the same on their first time and if so how did they handle their first time? Are there any clubs out there that people recomend for me to go to?


1 Comments, 289 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
master_pharoh 50 C
24 Articles
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10 Themes for Domination   1/13/2007

I wold like to share with all Egyptian dom(me)s these basic rules about domination:

1. Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive, you have no more right to order him/her around than does anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness ...


1 Comments, 248 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
takeifuwant 42 M
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I like how it feels but how do I feel?   1/13/2007

I"m troubled by a situation and wa slookinf for a word or two of advice from someone more experienced or who just has anything at all to offer in the way of assistance. I"ve had some trouble coming to grips with thsi pbefore but I'm fine with now saying that I enojoy receiving analpenetration. I have experienced a woman's strapon and quite enjoy how it feels physically, but wooried, what it ...


1 Comments, 148 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
slavemut 44 M
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being new to alt.com   1/11/2007

with being still quite new to here l thought u could get help from anyone but it seems you can so l think there should be a place on here to go to and get some good advice on how to do anything on alt .com


1 Comments, 120 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
DiamondBackDT 36 F
2 Articles
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Am I really ready???   1/10/2007

A question that has plagued all of us at one time or another. All I have to say is: "When you want to take on greater responsibilities then you should be ready to take on the greater consequences."


0 Comments, 185 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
majicwand 62 M
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It takes sooo loonnnggg!   1/9/2007

Well, I shouldn't complain, but it takes so long for me to cum sometimes! Now I know that some would value this, but sometimes it'sa little inconvenient. But it is kinda nice to be able to last a long time.
Does yohimbe have any effect on this? I haven't used it, just wondering.


0 Comments, 105 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
andy_resort 53 M
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Sex with people you don't "Fancy"   1/8/2007

I kinda have a thing for sex with people that I would not say I "fancied" in the classic sence; just purely get excited about the idea of having sex with them.
For example larger girls, older girls, strangers ... all these things excite me sexually but not in a way that I'd maybe look for in regular partner.
One slight issue I have with this is how honest I should be ...


2 Comments, 283 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
lovemyheels3 59 T
1 Article
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How do I find that special person?   12/24/2006

Hi out there, A question for the WOMEN out there (or a man who'se been in my position) I'm seeking some sensible, helpful advice. I'm a heterosexual crossdressing male, generally a normal macho bloke but like dressing up for sex occassionally and have a bit of a smoking fetish, only just joined this site but been on Adult Friends finder for a little while, but had few views or messages, ...


1 Comments, 176 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
SlaveSeeker_1
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Abusers of the BDSM way for presonal gain.   12/22/2006

Members of this community are far more vulnerable to being accused of abuse than any other minority community existent. Because of that the community tends to talk about abuse and consent a lot. The line between BDSM and abuse is consent. Misrepresentation, deceit, failure to be honest in any form in order to attract, lure or seduce someone into a controlled position simply to proceed with ...


0 Comments, 180 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
lasciviousdom 51 M
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Looking for creative input.   12/18/2006

For the last few years I've been working in writing erotic stories loosely based on experiences my ex-wife and I had "playing". Is there anybody out there who can help with some creative input?


0 Comments, 46 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
phillyguy129 62 M
2 Articles
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Love the roleplay/ageplay fantasies? How do I get interest?   12/4/2006

Hey, I put out lots of ads on this issue, but get very little resonse. Is there just no interest in it? Help me out please!


1 Comments, 124 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Hecate1 60 F
2 Articles
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Female Ejaculation   12/2/2006

This article was passed on to me by another member in the hopes that I would pass it on to others here on alt. and in my other venues. My thanks to Elder_Velvet for his contribution. Some women ejaculate during orgasm like men do. It's a natural action, but there's a lot of misunderstanding about it. When it happens, It's often a surprise to both parties, and an embarassment to the woman. ...


3 Comments, 476 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
likkinnab 48 M
3 Articles
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should I?   12/1/2006

I have done research in my area and have found a Domme. She will session with me. But now I have a connundrum. Do I go see her for I am in a great relationship, and my Lady is unwilling to go to the extremes that I am searching. So that is where I am at. To be Dominated and anally abused and showered upon.


0 Comments, 121 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score