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likesmatureones 55M
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9/22/2018 8:11 am
Can you have a bdsm relationship w boomerrang adult around


I asking this in a serious tone..can you have a bdsm relationship with someone when the adult decided they need to come back to the nest.
And even if the adult know what your into...are you comfortable w playing etc when they are around.

I only ask because i know this guy.. on paper we seem like a good match. Hes single/ has his own place/ hell has his own basement dungeon etc.
Which was cool when he was single/ living alone...he sorta went all out bdsmwise when his adult moved to cally.

Now the has moved back ..brought his gf and they live together w the dad in the same house. The knows the dads gay and into bdsm..

But i think its different knowing and actually having a guy over..actually playing w the guy in the dungeon when they are in the house.

Now personally i respect privacy and personal space..

id have no problem w play etc behind closed doors w the in the house etc.
But yeah..it is like the 800lb elephant in the room.

But im almost 50..and too old to be a closeted " ernie and bert".. im not interested in being submissive only when they are gone..im not interested in being gay when someone is away.
Life is too short for that bs.

Im kinda wondering if this wont turn out to be a third wheel thing all over again..no i dont mean getting involved with the .
But him being an interference. Ive been with couples and it always turns out badly.. usually jealousy on their part..i get along great w the wife and hubby gets ignored.

So i wonder if this adult will wonder if im trying to drive a wedge between father/ ...
Usually when the is living well off of the dad he doesnt want anyone derailing his good thing.

So even if the is super cool w all this...i wonder if i really want to step into this situation

likesmatureones 55M

9/22/2018 8:12 am


MsSwanger 35F
15964 posts
9/22/2018 12:55 pm

ON the flip side. if its not for you thats one thing.

AS a parent..... I want mine to always feel the door is open in a time of need. We hope that doesn't happen but it is what it is..

for me.. if I had a partner who minded... they could just go. I wouldn't want them.


MsSwanger
Journey into my soul.



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