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Dreamcatcher__ 87M
744 posts
9/25/2018 9:07 am

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10/11/2023 8:50 pm

Always Learning


I've been away for a while... not from alt., from America. I was in Japan again on a month-long voyage of rediscovery.

The rare reader of my blog knows that I spent a good part of my adult life in Asia and the Pacific where I discovered and studied the many of the cultural elements of male domination and female submission. This was my second visit to Japan in nine months.

Most of my experiences with Japanese eroticism are drawn from a particular tradition of female submission: the women of Tokyo's Ginza district and particularly the women who own or work in the most significant drinking establishments in the Ginza and their offshoots elsewhere in Tokyo and Japan. It is the core of a long and proud Japanese tradition. These women are the intimate confidants of the men who run Japan and are probably more consequential in Japanese culture than any other group of women, including the better-known but far-less-numerous Japanese geisha. They share and fiercely protect these men's secrets.

One of the things I discovered during the course of this journey was that men who have been circumcised have been cheated out of one of the most excruciatingly exhilarating orgasms possible. It is the frenumular orgasm. Circumcism ordinarily removes the frenum, which is the male equivalent of the clitoris. I have achieved this form of orgasm in the past, but this time, at age 81, was more spectacular than my previous experiences.

To achieve it, I lay on my back while the woman involved rested her head on my thigh with her open mouth positioned just behind the glans of my erect penis so that I could look into her eyes as I moved my frenum against her stiffened tongue. I pressed the frenum of my penis hard against her tongue and quickened the pace of my movements. Suddenly I could feel the penis erupting and I plunged it quickly into her mouth and ordered her to suck intensely as I continued to press the frenum against her tongue. The orgasm was an incredible combination of intense pleasure and pain but I was so caught up in the agonizing pleasure that I ordered her not to relent in her oral ministrations to my throbbing cock despite my repeated moans of agony (the word I kept shouting was "kurushiii!!," Japanese for "agonizing.") Throughout the experience, pursuant to what I had taught her, she kept her eyes locked on mine. Such a magnificently obedient girl.

I lost almost all sense of time, but I'm sure the orgasm and its aftereffects continued for several minutes. Despite its intensity I refused to let her stop. I was determined to experience every second I could of this wonder.

This was only one of the numerous discoveries and rediscoveries I encountered on this incredible journey. However, just writing this brief account is almost more than I can manage. The rest... how I so quickly reduced this woman to this degree of willing abject submission and the details of how this submission manifested itself, for example... will have to wait, as will the photographs (not of any women... I promised not to share those) but of the touristic aspects of my visit.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
10/16/2018 11:38 am

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Evidently I released a great deal of that power. The woman who was the principal subject of this post has apparently been transformed by the experience. She seems like a person reborn. ...and yes, I did have a great time. I only wish I could summon the initiative to complete the narrative.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
9/26/2018 6:50 am

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I hope to add more brush strokes to the painting in time. It was a very enlightening experience for me, one that I hope will generate some thoughtful discussion as I strive to complete the picture.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
9/26/2018 6:47 am

    Quoting shellfac1:
    Actually, the penis is the male equivalent to the female clitoris. I am not doubting the validity of your experience or the idea that circumcised men might be missing the ability to experience a particular sensation, but if they had the equivalent of the clitoris removed, they probably wouldn't be capable of orgasm at all. Glad you are still learning and enjoying the pleasures of the flesh. You are truly an inspiration!
I probably should have researched and phrased that claim about the frenulum more carefully. I do believe the frenulum is the most sensitive part of the s=penis and that manipulation of the frenulum intensifies and prolongs orgasms. I don't know that circumcision necessarily involves removal of or damage to the frenulum as was claimed by my internet source.

One purpose of this trip was to determine whether someone my age could through the use of D/s techniques continue to not only enjoy heightened sexual experiences but also heighten the sexual pleasure of women of any age. I hope to catalog my experiences here and let my readers decide for themselves. If I was successful, hopefully it will dispel or enlighten the discussion of some of the age-related preconceptions people have about sex and D/s.


shellfac1 62F
2293 posts
9/25/2018 8:53 pm

Actually, the penis is the male equivalent to the female clitoris. I am not doubting the validity of your experience or the idea that circumcised men might be missing the ability to experience a particular sensation, but if they had the equivalent of the clitoris removed, they probably wouldn't be capable of orgasm at all. Glad you are still learning and enjoying the pleasures of the flesh. You are truly an inspiration!


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
9/25/2018 11:55 am

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I'm glad you found it worthwhile. I wasn't sure how people would react to it. It was a fascinating month for me. I haven't even scratched the surface.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
9/25/2018 11:52 am

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You may well be right, Vlad. I gave her repeated, powerful orgasms and she kept begging for more, so in my infinite wisdom I thought I'd try that little experiment to see if I could experience what she was feeling. If she felt anything like I did, I don't know how she survived. I know I'm damn glad I don't have a weak heart or I might not be here to share the story.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
9/25/2018 10:25 am

Sadly, like most of Japan's cultural traditions, the women of the Ginza and their sisterhood throughout Japan are a vanishing and under-appreciated treasure. I feel fortunate to have been able to experience all they have to offer.



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